One amazing thought had hit me today. Why do women desire monogamy and men don’t? Of course, it is just a general opinion. Because all people are different and many men do want monogamy as well. But it is known that men dream about polygamy.
What’s interesting is that when a man is in love, he wants only her – he doesn’t want any other women.
It looks like a man desires polygamy when he is not in love but he wants monogamy when he is in love with his precious one!
Maybe the God made it this way, so women would try their best to keep the fire of love with her chosen one? For me it sounds like a really great motivation for women to take care of love. Isn’t it?
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Very true. A man considers pure and true love from a woman to be the one thing worthy enough to both live and die for. This pure love is hard to find though as many women concentrate on all wrong things (sex appeal, career) which only lessen their femininity and relationship-appeal to men. Just thought id be honest.
Interesting point, James! I totally agree with you that many women concentrate on things that repel men. That is why it is so hard for women to keep the fire of love with their men.
Hello, I enjoyed reading your post. It raises many questions about monogomy. For instance, if a man is in love with his precious one and want’s only her, what does it mean if he commits adultery? Does he not love as intensely as he first did? It also poses the question about the motives of the other woman. Does she seek to usurp the place of the other or does she, because of a feminist culture feel it is acceptable to take her pleasure at liberty?
One thing that really roars out of this post at me is the fact, that modern women appear to have lost their sense of biological identity.
Regards Talia.
Thank you, Talia, for an interesting question.
If a man commits adultery when he is in love with his precious one, for sure there is something going on:
1. First of all, men seek company of other women, when their primary love needs are not fulfilled by wives. For example, he might need attention, admiration, or respect.
2. Second, it is important what a woman thinks about men in general. If she believes that all men are cheaters by nature, that is what she will end up with. Because with our thoughts we create our realities.
3. And if a woman thinks about other men, she commits adultery in her thoughts. This will be leading her husband to be unfaithful too. He will not even realize why he behaves this way.
Therefore, if a man commits adultery, it is better not to criticize him, but to take a look deep inside to find out why it happened.
Motives of other women? They might have a variety of motives – just desire to have sex, pure love, or desire to have a relationship with a married man.
Hello Ekaterina.
That is an interesting theory, that if a woman believes all men are cheaters by nature, this is what she will end up with. I also like your last comment about exploring the reason why it happened.
I will be subscribing to your blog as your posts are stimulating.
Regards Talia.
Talia, you can verify this theory by observing women – find out what they think about men and look at the life results. You can notice that women who highly think about men (and about their husband particularly) have good husbands. While women who think poorly about men have deplorable experiences with men.
Good article!
I think the higher a woman’s opinion of men in general is, the higher standards she sets, both for herself and the men in her life. This helps her attract the right guys and weed out the wrong ones.
Gigi, it is a nice comment! It is what I always tell all ladies!
Happy to know women like you.